Why You Should Have a Photoshoot the Night Before Your Wedding

Traditionally, couples will sleep separately the night before the wedding, which stems from the ancient tradition that the bride is not allowed to see the groom's face before the wedding ceremony. The custom then turned into superstition, with some believing that meeting each other on the big day was bad luck. While some joined in an attempt to stir up excitement just before they saw each other on the altar, others chose to meet right before their vows for a first look. But there are couples who put all traditions aside and spend their last single night together. Even more amazing: they are taking the opportunity to do a special pre-wedding photo session, capturing the final moments before starting the next chapter together.

Why a night before shoot?

You might be asking, do I really need to book another photoshoot? Well, hear us out! Unlike engagement or wedding day photos, which are typically traditional and planned out, a night-of photoshoot can be more spontaneous. In fact, it can capture all of the raw emotions you're feeling in the hours before you say “I do.” From excited and emotional to scared and anxious, a professional can document it all.

For Johnhenryweddingphoto, a night before photoshoot also gives couples a chance to relax and enjoy that last night. This can be especially helpful in easing any last-minute jitters either one might be feeling. “It really took the pressure off, helped them let loose and have a good time, and was emotional in all the best ways,” she explained.

How should you prepare?

The first step is to meet with your photographer and figure out what kind of vibe you want for your night-before photos. Are you looking for romantic? Sexy? Cute? The choice is up to you, notes Johnhenryweddingphoto. “Throw away the traditional things that don't feel like you,” she says. “Make a memory that will last a lifetime and do whatever you want to do.”

If you’re not sure what that is, Johnhenryweddingphoto recommends thinking about what your typical date night looks like and what you enjoy doing together as a couple in your free time. “I also think this helps the couple break out of their shell when they're doing things they would normally do,” she says.

Some ideas that come to mind include playing their favorite board game, making homemade pizza, cuddling up on the couch to watch Netflix and chill, looking through old photos, dancing around the room, enjoying a yummy dessert, or sharing a bottle of wine. “Or do like my couple did—they got drunk, cuddled in bed, got emotional over getting married the next day, and took a bath,” says Kirshner. “Totally the most chill and low-key night, but so fun and so perfect for them.”